Talk about it
We often paraphrase (repeat what someone said in our own words) to check our understanding. Is this the same in your culture? Do you use the same/similar language?
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The way to sound friendlier is to have varied intonation (your voice goes up and down more). Is that the same in your culture? Can you sound friendly in English? How do you feel when you do that?
Here are some expressions you can use:
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Giving your opinion |
So I think… It seems to me… In my experience/country/family… |
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Checking |
Do you mean….? Are you asking…? Are you talking about…? |
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Thinking time |
Hmmmmm… Let me think (about that). I’m not really sure… I haven’t really thought about that before. |
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Complimenting |
That’s a good question. Good point. |
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Choosing not to answer |
Hmm, that’s a little personal. I’d rather not talk about that. |
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Involving other people |
What do you think? How about you? |